December 7th, 2007

So my friend SJ is not having a very good day. And you know what sucks about that? Today is her birthday!!!! No one should be having a sucktastic day on their birthday! I know, I know…I am a little nutty and fruity about birthdays, but I’m just a celebratory whore.
I’m not afraid of getting older. I may joke around about the little wrinkles under my eyes or the fact that I make that "moaning" sound when I bend over these days….but at the same time, with age comes wisdom. And with wisdom comes an inner beauty that radiates from within. I’ve also noticed that the men I am generally attracted to are a little bit older than I am…yanno late 30’s/early 40’s. I think that just goes to show that after we reach a certain age, we begin to appreciate someone with life experience rather than just a cute, tight ass. Sure sure, I still look at the young bucks (Tom Welling, yum!) but *feel* something for the older dudes. Besides, I’ve got acting like a kid at heart down to an art form. I love the fact that I don’t act my age and probably never will.
There’s something about accepting ones age that is peaceful and sorta sexy. What do you think about all that aging stuff?
While you’re pondering that question, will you please go and wish mah girl SJ a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY? PLEASE? WITH SUGAR ON TOP?
Also, you can still ask me any question you want to here. I will be answering them throughout the weekend too!
Birthday Kisses,
Me










December 7th, 2007 at 10:04 am
i already did. i’m so on top of things. you’re a good pal.
December 7th, 2007 at 10:19 am
I’m kind of on the other side of the spectrum. I deal with kids all the time, and sometimes I catch myself acting JUST LIKE A KID… IN FRONT OF ADULTS. Those are the times that’s kind of embarrassing.
I have to start hanging out with adults more. That’s what I tell myself.
December 7th, 2007 at 11:59 am
OK I went over to wish her a happy birthday because I’m a robot like that. It’s how I role.
No, seriously, she’s a good writer.
December 7th, 2007 at 12:00 pm
Yeah it didn’t work. looks like I just spelled it wrong. “Role” is a very stupid pun. Sorry.
December 7th, 2007 at 1:01 pm
You know, that made me giggle because there is this tard that drives around South Orange County whose license plate says “HOWIROL”. Shawn and I always joke about him losing his “L” on the freeway. And whenever I say, “that’s how I roll” it sounds like “rawl” cause of that guys’ misspelling and my making fun of it!
December 7th, 2007 at 1:22 pm
As the years keep adding up, I like to think I’ve become something of an old pro at…well, getting old. The thing is, it doesn’t bother me. Honestly. Maybe I’m just lucky, or blessed with good genes, but I think it has a lot do with one’s mindset.
Also, your priorities are decidedly redefined. You no longer sweat the small stuff. Adversity tends to test your mettle and hone your survival skills, but because you’ve been at it a while, it doesn’t seem to take as much effort.
“Being at peace with your place in the cosmos” sounds terribly cliché but for me it’s been a critical element in accepting myself as I am—no more and no less, aged and ageless.
Oh, and older men are definitely worth waiting for. It often takes decades longer for them to finally grow up.
(BTW, I notice that RW completely side-stepped your entire “aging” question. Coward.)
December 7th, 2007 at 2:27 pm
WHAT aging question? I didn’t see no aging question.
Oh.
THAT aging question. Sorry my eyes aren’t too good anymore.
December 7th, 2007 at 3:28 pm
Aww cool! I added whip cream with the sugar!
December 7th, 2007 at 5:14 pm
Hey, all you Snackie readers who are taking time to come over and extend birthday wishes to someone you don’t even know: YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!!!
And Hilly, thanks for salvaging my birthday from the depths of
workfrustration. You’re the beans on my toast!I *think* I’m comfortable with my age. Sleeping with a younger man sure helps.
December 8th, 2007 at 8:24 am
I’m basking in the glow of my “two twenties”. I honestly haven’t felt this good about myself since I was….hmm……I can’t ever remember feeling good about myself like I do now. Well, there ya go! I love being 40!
December 8th, 2007 at 9:42 pm
I don’t have any problem with aging except I worry about being to old to have a kid.
BLTs are great with that turkey bacon. I forgot about BLTs until you mentioned it. I’ve had two since.
December 8th, 2007 at 11:08 pm
The things you mentioned are probably a result of being 20/30 something, as opposed to being 40/50 something.
I used to like older guys, like 10 years older… now I like the younger ones, LOL.
I used to think age meant wisdom, & liked the little wrinkles by my eyes… now I realize that even fools live to be old.
I could swear there was a positive note in what I was going to say. Aw hell, I can’t remember!